I have not wanted to take the time to post the past couple days, my grand babies and son and his wife are here for a 2 week visit so I feel like each and every minute needs to be spent with them!
We had a great day playing at the fountains and visiting the toy store.
Little one is always jabbering away and telling us stories.
I am so ready for the weekend, we have Summerfest here in our neck of the woods, and this let's me know summer has arrived. The carnival comes to town, local folks set up their booths full of crafts they have made, I usually have my first corn of the cob, children running around with tickets in one hand and cotton candy in the other, and of course the grand finale is a night parade and fireworks two of my favorite things!
For the past 11 days I have been really laid up with a bad back ache. The dumb thing is, I really don't know what I did to have hurt it this bad...
I wish I could say I wrestled a Grizzly and won, or I fell off a horse, something a little more dramatic, but the truth is... I think when I picked up my little 20 pound dog at the vets that I twisted a bit funny and felt it kinda give me a zing, and then later that afternoon, when I was helping my daughter in law pull her chair out, at Chili's that I felt another little zang, and by the time I got in my car I was looking through my purse for the Advil, and trying to remember where I put the heating pad at home.
After 5 days of trying to be tough I gave in and went to the Dr, and he gave me some muscle relaxant that didn't do a dang thing for my back, just made me so I couldn't walk in a straight line.
Had a sweet neighbor come over and show me a couple tricks that had helped her and actually helped me for a day or two. But by Sunday I was miserable again.
This week I was in so much pain that Sean came home from work early took me to the Dr. who sent me straight over to physical therapy. After 3 treatments I am finally able to stand for more than 15 minutes without wanting to cry, but I am still not a big fan of sitting:)
SO the moral of this story is that I am to young to feel this old. Once I get the Dr's o.k it is back on the bike and time to start addressing, HOW I am not going to do this to myself again, I am not entirely sure what that means; Yoga, or Pilates, dare I say losing weight Ugh.
If you see me hobbling around again, you may assume I have wrestled a Grizzly:)
"If you do nothing, nothing will change"
~ Steve Hefferon (The Healthy back Institute)
The last several days I have had a pretty bad back ache, and to my own admission may have not been a barrel of fun and giggles. My good hubby has been more than nice, he has been to the store on multiple occasions buying every kind of icy/hot patch, lotions and potions, heating pads, etc. etc, to try and ease my pain.
So I decided even though I was not feeling up to par that it was time to make dinner for him, I had all the ingredients except for two so I s-l-o-w-l-y went to the store and grabbed the items I needed and got in the 15 items or less line.
In front of me was an older man with a few items, and the young lady who was helping him rang him through quickly and placed his items in a couple bags. He paused and looks at her and in a sarcastic tone says, 'are you paying for the bags?' The cute smile on her face quickly disappeared and I don't think she really understood why he was using that tone with her, and to be honest neither did I.
So she looked at him innocently as he continued to stand there and glare at her... he repeated himself again and she then turned red and stuttered that she could give him another bag if that is what he was asking. At this point I am feeling badly for the young girl, and so I asked this man if he thought there was a nicer way of asking for another bag to which he just glared at me and said nothing and walked away.
Maybe it was because I was his age and maybe it was the look on my face, he knew that he should not speak to me as he spoke to this young lady, because I was certainly prepared to let him have it. He grabbed the bag from the girl and left the store.
The girl who 5 minutes before had been smiling at everyone that went through her line, now had tears in her eyes, red face and was anything but smiling.
I tried to make her laugh telling her someone must have peed in his corn flakes that day, and she gave me a smile.
Ya know I was steamed up when I got back in my car, I wonder if that man knew that his lack of manners affected those around him, probably not.
Lesson learned... just Be Nice, how much different would it have turned out if he would have asked in a kinder tone, or better yet just grabbed one of the thousands of bags at the end of every isle. She would have continued to smile and chat with everyone in line and they would have smiled back in return.
27 years ago at 1:26 am in the morning, after 14 plus hours of labor, I gave birth to an 8 pound 9 oz 21 inch baby boy! When they placed this little baby in my arms I was completely and totally in love!
He was the most perfect baby, and I was sure no one else in the world had ever given birth to a baby as perfect as mine:)
I remember the ride home from the hospital and how slow your dad was driving... totally terrified, your little head was rolling all over the place in the car seat, we pulled off the side of the road to adjust you a couple times on the 30 minute ride home. This still makes me laugh, we were so young.
When Grandma and me would be in the kitchen we would lay him in a big laundry basket and set him on the table.
My son at 18months old
His son looks just like him at the same age.
Lots of memories come to mind when I think about my oldest son, big brother, intelligent,sarcastic,
responsible, obnoxious, comic books,student,Dragon's Keep, super heroes, popcorn, frozen jr. mints, science fairs, monsters in the closet, Metallica, missionary,believing, example, roller blading, Stephen King, horror films,paint ball, hard working, Brazil,ambitious,organized, prolific,truth seeking, husband, and father.
When we discovered Islands of Adventure in Florida with everything Marvel, I am pretty sure my boys thought they got a glimpse of heaven.
One of my favorite pictures of my baby and me
What a blessing he is in my life. What an amazing joyful ride it was to raise this fantastic son.